Turning Trials Into Testimonies


Photo by Gale E
Photo by Gale E

“Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.” James 1:2-4 (NIV)

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Do you see your trials as opportunities for growth or potential acts of terrorism on your life? When you see a situation coming hard and fast do you run eagerly towards it or sprint hastily away?

I am the latter; I admit it. I despise drama of any sort, conflict of any sort and what I term ‘unnecessary stress which could have been avoided if others had done what they were supposed to do when they were supposed to do it’ situations of any sort. But the saying “perception is reality” is very true and our attitude towards our trials can either make us or break us.

In my Daily Wisdom for Women devotional I remember being told:

“However, instead of shunning trials, let’s rest in the Lord and run toward Him, believing that the things that test us lead us to maturity … and deep, deep joy.”

Wow! We’re being asked to embrace something we would rather not have in the first place.  It’s a tall order but even though I may sigh and through my hands in the air ever so often, I will be like the man who brought his son to Jesus in Mark 9:17-24 and proclaim to my heavenly Father: “I do believe; help me overcome my unbelief!”

Have a Thankful Thursday … and believe (like, really believe)!

Photo by Gale E
Photo by Gale E

The Battle

Fighting cancer. It’s like a battle. A very serious one. Sometimes we come out alive. Sometimes we die. Thankfully this sweet blogger is a survivor. She doesn’t only remember but is brave enough to share her battle. My mom didn’t make it. I miss her. A lot.


Where am I?

Faced down,

It’s hot.

I’m parched.

Dusty ditch?

Roadside gutter?

Who’s territory?

What war?

What uniform?

What happened?

Missile, land mine?




eyes closed

attached at wrist?


Can’t feel my body

Voices nearing

don’t flinch

play dead.

English words

sigh with relief…

women hurry

to my aid

turn me over

place mask over mouth

I breath

They leave

I pass out

Waking later

gagging, coughing


in hospital room

attached to breathing apparatus

hooked to a drip-stand

get up and fight

never give up

It’s a battle with Cancer

© Southampton Old Lady 2013

I often wondered why people referred to it as a “battle” with Cancer.  It is very much fight or flee combat. While staying in hospital and undergoing chemotherapy for Hodgkins Lymphoma,  I hallucinated that I was at war. Two nurses arrived and put a breathing apparatus on me while I was semi-conscious…

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Whoever thinks money can’t buy happiness is dead wrong


flower close up by Nathan, rule of thirds
Photo by Nathan Weithers


“Be happy with what you have and are, be generous with both, and you won’t have to hunt for happiness.”
William E. Gladstone

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I found this article by Dr. Ken Nedd to be most interesting but the question to ask yourself after reading it is this: can money indeed buy happiness? What do you think? Continue reading Whoever thinks money can’t buy happiness is dead wrong