To Love Is To Have Courage

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Today is International Women’s Day and for months I struggled to decide on the exact message I wanted to share. How could I inspire women, encourage them to be bolder, stronger, even happier?  I suffered from word paralysis.

Then I came across this touching post on Serendipitydodah entitled “Love Is Very Much Like Courage” written by Meredith Indermaur. Now I have too many words but her’s are most powerful of all, not only as a mom but as a Christian mom having to go out there and find the courage to love – selflessly and unconditionally. You may have to read it more than once but that’s about all I’m going to say (I personally hate spoilers).

To all women, let us be feminine while being fierce and fearless. Let us uplift other women while walking equally with men. Let us be the example of leadership the world continues to look for especially today and may our light shine brightest when life is at its darkest.

Happy International Women’s Day … go out and celebrate with another amazingly awesome woman – because you can 🙂

In Celebration of Women

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“Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
    but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
Honor her for all that her hands have done,
    and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.”
Proverbs 31:30-31 (NIV)


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There is no-one on earth, no-one


“Indeed, there is no one on earth who is righteous, no one who does what is right and never sins.”
Ecclesiastes 7:20 (NIV)
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The year is speeding along and as we continue to press ahead let’s take a little time to consider the word “humility” which as we know speaks to being humble – but see a quick definition here:​​ “the quality or condition of being humble; modest opinion or estimate of one’s own importance, rank, etc.”

And why is humility so important? Because many believers are currently being taken to task (and maybe rightly so) for being judgmental, critical of others and purporting to be ‘holier than thou’ when dealing with ‘sinners’ so.  By now ​it should be clear: adulterers, thieves, murderers, gangsters, liars, abusers, homosexuals … no-one will listen to us if we speak from a ​prideful ​”thou shalt not …” point of view. They don’t want to hear it because they already know we are not sinless!

The thing about life ​though ​is it’s never really about us but more about taking the time to ​actively listen to someone as they tell their story​,​ and then (if applicable) ​humbly sharing what we’ve learnt from our own experience and how God helped us through the tough times. For example, in John 4: 17 we see that Jesus never judged the woman at the well. This female had had five husbands and the man she was with was not her ​husband.  ​Seriously.  ​But oh horror of horrors! Imagine the looks of disdain from other women who knew her story and who judged her as she came into church on Sunday. Imagine the whispered comments and averted looks as she took her seat in a pew​, God-forbid at the front close to the altar! Imagine the men in the congregation looking on; some ​secretly wondering if they could oust the current man in her life, after all … didn’t she have … morality issues? I dare you to tell me I’m wrong.​

Jesus on the other hand however still had hope for her. He didn’t look down on her or believe having a conversation with her was beneath him. Maybe the lesson here ​is instead of witnessing from a position of condoning or condemning ​we should try reaching out in love and encouragement to seek the change in life that’s available to us all.  There is much work to be done and the fields are ripe for harvest​; it’s all about how we harvest ​more so than how many are harvested​, even as we humbly ​​ work on getting rid of the weeds in our own gardens.  What do you think? Just a little something to think about … especially on International Women’s Day.

“The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.”
2 Peter 3:9 (ESV)​

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Photo by Gale E
Photo by Gale E